Asian earthquakeness is thoroughly terrible. Go give money to the Disasters Emergency Committee or Save the Children.
Then read this disturbing comparison (from the comments at Crooked Timber): "present estimates of 77,000 (which are probably only 50% or less of the final total for the tsunami) are about the same number of people who have died from AIDS in Africa since December 19th (i.e., 10 days ago)."
At this point, you may despair.